Surprises

Why do people like to give others surprises? I hate surprises they usually involved me having to cancel my plans in order to participate in the surprise. Or having to pretend to enjoy something that I might just not enjoy. Why not just consult the person you are trying to give something special? I would think they would appreciate the gesture even more if they got to put the some input and schedule it into their free time.

Also surprises can cause health issues. Can you imagine giving a birthday surprise to someone who is 50 or 60 or 70.... or anything higher? Isn't that just asking for troubles? Anniversaries would be worst surprises two people on their 25th anniversary and them having heart troubles can't be safe. There is just a certain age limit where you can't surprise people or else you might be playing with death.