Hugs

I have never liked hugs, in fact I can say I hated them. The only hug I can say I enjoyed were those with my sister and grandmother. I always found it stupid for people to meet others and have to give them a hug or just randomly hug. Especially girls seem to hug each other for no apparent reason and they always need to hug at every opportunity. I really dislike the "church hugs", where there is some event in church and then after you just hug randoms as part of tradition. I mean it makes no sense to have to endure fake emotion.

Recently however I think I have begun to understand the value of a hug. A friend told me that, "... i love hugs cuz they are the physical expression of how you feel about someone. it's like you're saying you wish there was nothing between you." This way of thinking has greatly appealed to me in the past month. I can now understand how when a soccer player scores a goal and he's whole team jumps him in love and joy is similar to the joy and happiness of when you meet someone you truly care about. Also how there are certain times in life where there aren't any words which can express your feelings or the things you are facing and how a hug can be a solution and moreover a sense of release. Sometimes we all just need to take a moment of our time to give a genuine hug to someone we care about and appreciate. Life is too short and unpredictable to wait or not express how we feel for someone.

D: I Love You and Miss You Very Much, Thank You, suker

Thank You Hockey Mom, Superwoman and RAni-gk :)