Signs

I’ve found myself being in various conversations in which people are trying to understand the true meaning of people’s actions or inactions. I’ve always been an observer myself, but I never knew how much people depend on this and I don’t know much you can really tell from a person.

Some examples include, a bf/gf not being to say they love you, not introducing your bf/gf to your friends or family, having someone who loves you constantly forgetting about events or important dates, having someone who loves you driving 30km to drop off stuff to other friends but not being able to mail you something which you’ve asked for several times, having good friends constantly doing something which you have told them annoys you ….the list is really endless.

These may or may not be unintentional errors on the part of the other person, but when this happens to you how can you not wonder what it means. If maybe it’s the first sign that they don’t actually love you, that they really aren’t your friends, that for them you are not worth the effort or time it takes to do or remember something important. Does it matter how often something like this happens? Does it matter how the person was in regards to a similar situation before compared to now? How much can one wait, or endure until you have to bring it to their attention, until you really have no choice but to assume you’re not worth it to them and you need move on? Why is it that everyone hates to be left hanging yet they aren’t willing to put the effort to make sure they don’t do the same to others?

So many questions, way too many potential answers..... if they aren't bothered by their actions or lack their of... then obvious that you aren't on the same track. After a while its too hard to deny that they really don't care about you and its way to easy for them to lie and make up excuses for their actions.

***Dedicating this blog to all losers in our lives who we keep even though we know they don't care about us***